I have been wondering lately. What happened to the days when people actually gave a shit about how their actions or words would effect others? Does anyone thing outside their own existence anymore? I have a temper. Hell most of us do to some extent. I have learned via trial and error how to keep it in check. I have learned that sometimes the best thing to say is nothing at all. Especially when I am pissed off. Anger never translates to reason and understanding. When I start to do something, I often ask myself how it will effect people. Am I going to step on toes or hurt feelings. Is it going to make me look like a total douche bag?? I have always been the type to "try" to filter my thoughts before I blurt or react. I know that I have stopped myself from things based on the answers to the above questions. Sometimes stopping myself helps spare others while in turn hurting me. Typical co-dependent...
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